Understanding d XX clan

Dis post was smthing on which i wanted to write from a long tym but couldn't find enuf time and take enuf pains to write.....but nw i have managed both somehow...hehe.....so bck do d topic...at d first feel ppl would think tht i wld be writing abt d new Gen X ( ultra kool youth of this great nation) but no it's abt d XX chromosome clan ie. in layman language d girls.....yes, today I am going to write about a subject that I dearly love and hate, desire and loathe….. FEMALES! d endless discussions during my GDs , TV discussion shows etc. etc. of late have time and again made me force to think about the word EQUALITY being asked for by the girl(women) folk.....I am personally in total favour of this equality tune both by my consent as well as going by our great Constitution written some 60 yrs back.....But then again what drives me mad is talking about EQUALITY and PREFERENCE at the same time.....I feel,and guess most of u readers will agree is tht preference and equality is something tht u can't ask for at the same time.....I myself have been a sufferer of this preference factor various times be it normal ticket queues,fee deposit, job interviews ,bus seats etc. etc. what it does emotionally at least is to hike ur temper against ppl enjoying tht favour and finally ending up as an ill-feel .So my sincere request to those who want to press on the equality thing and real admires of it is to stop using d privilege to first feel equal and then ask others to follow it rather than always sulking on the behaviour of d men folk...

one more issue which came to my mind while i was watching a show on V - channel last nyt although not much related to this post except d clan being discussed about ie Females....d show was a kinda road show where a VJ was roaming ard asking b'ful grls abt wht all qualities thy look for in their boyfrnds nd as expected every grl being asked came out with d same answers i quote "sense of humour is my priority thn i wld say intelligence nd d least priority being looks" hahaa.. nw whom r u trying to fool dear zillions of interested viewers lyk me or urself laughing on whtever u spoke on d camera ,jst aftr d camera went off ur face....if these qualities where d only one fr someone's priority thn probably raju shrivastava wld be having d maximum no. of girlfrnds.......my only point writing about all this in d 2nd section in my post was a sense of fakeness tht comes up whenever somebody is on camera which i feel alot of youth express nd again specially d girls ......my only question to all you great gift of d almighty is WHY???

Do U hav a grlfrnd???

The title of this post is a question that pops out every time i meet any of my old acquaintance in recent times.I'm pretty undecided as to i love or hate the question because obviously with this question comes up the usual talk about girls which is a pretty easy topic to spend hours on for the young junta like us and diverts our mind from any serious thoughts that could have else become the topic of the discussion(lyk career,education,percentages nd all) and things carry on in a lighter vein but at the same time does this question really carries some importance?Well,I would say no.......not for the junta i know of ....for whom this has the most significant effect bring changing the status in orkut account from single to committed and flaunting about the coziness in their friend's circle.
In reality , I feel that the relationship and the very divines of it should restrain the individual to keep it as the most secret element rather than the opposite of it. I always feel that flaunting your girlfriend on ur desktop wallpaper and orkut galleries (for reviews and comments from ur near and dear ones) keeps out the real fun of your truly being into d very thing.Although this comment of mine will bring more of 'brickbats' rather than 'pats' from my friends but still I have decided to go on with the flow of my mind than being forced to go with the flow of ppl 'motivating my mind' . So, no "HARD FEELINGS" junta..... Through this post i would also like to wish all my friends who r in a relationship for the best of it.....and as i write this blog i find that a blog has more to do with comments because then only one can be aware of people's mind and the synchronization of it with the writer....Carrying on with the topic i feel that this question is very haunting at the same time for lotsa guys who fear that if thy reply it with a NO they can be an element of a mockery and they either safely avoid the question(by diverting the topic with their maximum efforts) or make some stupid theories.My heart goes out to all such fellas and i can just help u with this answer "STOP ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS"...... this topic of the post will be continued later when i'll come up with few more theories as i have run short of them now......GROANS invited.........

Phases of My Lyf

I have always thought and there is no rocket science in this ,that life is lived in phase after phase...places and faces just keep changing but when you look back at it you can clearly demarcate each phase from the other, each having its own pros(less and negligible to the infinitely small levels) and cons ...with each phase deciding ur life in a big way.
The first phase goes down to memory lanes with me as a kid who dreaded of PTA meets and Result Day although i guessed i performed well ,but there were people who where always better so difficult time managing parents assuring them nd giving alibi for not being among the toppers.....now i can just laugh on the reasons. At time i thot that only my school had all the toppers and if i moved to some other school i had the caliber of topping it......Nice thought but now not 2 sure about it.
2nd phase I would say brings me to the serene environment of cool Himachal, my engineering college and i'm still not over with this phase. Comp. Sc. Engg. was the branch i opted for nd wht to say i did tht only at the behest of my wise friends who told me this was the easiest to manage. To say the least, I hate that decision now not because i don't like this branch but certainly it's not easy and my grades yell to prove that .At this juncture i'm still undecided about whether to study more (obviously a MBA) or to experience corporate culture with a job experience
This decision and beyond would further decide my next phases of life.
So this blog of mine will certainly be updated during future with time and tide my life experiences.

About D blog

Finally decided to start on with a blog after mind jostling of over 3 years.With one part of my cerebrum in favour of writing it d other said i need more experience of life to do so. But then with the free time one has , I decided to go ahead. Nd moreover it will fulfill, once my childhood ambition of becoming a journalist as this would serve as the medium for some kind of interaction about general issues nd my thoughts regarding the same.I expect people to read them and give their comments so as to have some kind of discussion and at the same time i would be aware of people's point of view as well.As the title suggests, this entry goes on describing the blog. This blog will contain matter, less related to my personal life ( me being no famous personality ,at least till now like great - BIG B , Amir or equivalents) and more on general issues that are currently on the horizon be it Business and Economy(my new interest),new gizmo's or anything political ,educational or etc. worth giving an opinion on . I wish i would have spare time over the years for this blog.